Today’s Writing Prompt: Ritual
We all have some type of ritual. It could be a daily walk, a morning brew of coffee, or a complex set of steps that you must complete before moving on to the next thing. Write about one of your rituals and what it means to you. Why do you feel it is necessary? When did it start? What would happen if you didn’t do it?
The other day my son and I were driving home from church. We pass a very small, modest house and my son said “That’s the kind of house I want!” I was a little shocked as the house was very small and nondescript. My son is academically gifted and I had visions him being a CEO, famous artist, etc. Basically, I visioned him having a lucrative career and along with that, I did not envision such a tiny, unremarkable home. I asked him why that house appealed to him. He then went on to tell me big houses require a lot of work and money to maintain and he did not want to spend his time, money, and energy maintaining and extravagant house. He would much rather travel, and work just enough to afford the things he enjoys. Spending so much money on a house did not make sense to him.
This day I learned that my dreams for may child are just that – My Dreams. He has a mind of his own and, from what I can tell, a pretty good plan. I work in higher education and I often encounter parents pushing their dreams onto their children. I try to encourage the parents and the students to make decisions they will be happy with in the long run. Although I never tell my son that he shouldn’t take a certain path or judge his decisions, I do realize that I may imply my disappointment, but saying things like “Why would you want to do that? I have to be careful with my tone because I have always told my son that he would be free to do anything that does not harm himself or others. I will always take into consideration his best interests and will guide him along the way, but I will also trust that sometimes his vision for himself is what’s best for him. It is his life to live and I want him to be happy.
We have all been planted. Some can bloom in their present situation. Some need to be uprooted and transported to an environment conducive to growth. Regardless of your situation, you owe it to yourself to blossom.
Sometimes change needs to happen. If your present situation is not to your liking, by all means, do something to improve it. Things could always be worse, but they could also be better. There is always a bright side. Don’t be afraid of the light. The grass is not always greener on the other side, but if there is no sunlight on your side of the fence, nothing will grow. Make a move! Go out and find the sunlight to fuel your growth.
There have been many changes in my life recently and surely and hopefully there will be more. As I continue on my journey, I look for new and exciting ways to reset when I get stuck in a rut. One rut I was stuck in was beginning to show up in every area of my life. I was not eating the way I should.
Since returning to the workforce a little over 2 years ago. I slowly began trading my healthy clean food for quick and easy solutions. A few pounds started to find there way back to the places I had worked so hard to keep them away from. My skin started to break out again, I was tired and irritable, and I was catching colds. It was clear that I needed to reboot!
A couple of days ago I purchased another juicer. I gave my old juicer to my brother. I remember when I got my first juicer and made my own juice everyday with fresh fruits and vegetables. I felt great and I didn’t have those annoying cravings for junk. Now I am back on track and my son has jumped on the bandwagon with me. I have so much energy and I am getting back in the groove.
I have also made meal plans for the week and beyond. What a difference!
Now that I have so much more energy and a renewed spirit, I will also be writing more blog posts (another thing I had quit doing in my slump). I have so many wonderful experiences to share.
I would like all of us to find little ways to reboot. We should search for those things that make us happy and do what it takes to add them in our lives. Sometimes you need to reboot or build a tribe to help you along the way. Whatever the case my be, renew and refresh!
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